I am a real Frisian; down-to-earth, optimistic and strong. I like clarity and use clear language. I also do what I say, and say what I do. I am a good listener, and can pinpoint the problem quickly, while always paying attention to my client’s emotions, worries and needs. I also help my clients to put things into perspective. This can be very beneficial, especially in emotional cases.
As a specialist in the law of persons and family law, I can contribute to finding a solution in a variety of ways. As a mediator and collaborative divorce specialist, I help partners who wish to arrange their divorce together. As a lawyer, my aim is to work with the other lawyer to reach an agreement. If that does not succeed, I will act as my client's lawyer throughout the legal court proceedings and at the hearing.
I have extensive experience of international divorces and complex divorces involving entrepreneurs, and in the settling of prenuptial agreements.
As a guardian ad litem, I look out for the interests of the children. I also stand up for children’s interests in my role as lawyer and divorce mediator. As the child of divorced parents, I know how important it is for parents to put their children’s interests first during a divorce and for them to work on their relationship as parents.
Body and mind influence each other. I like to keep moving, both literally and figuratively and I exercise a lot in my free time; CrossFit, boxing, and boot camp in particular give me energy and strength. A strong mind in a strong body is my motivation.
Memberships
- vFAS: Association of Family Lawyers and Divorce Mediators
- MfN: Mediators Federation of the Netherlands
- DDe Association of Collaborative Professionals
Education
- Law and Business Administration (University of Groningen)
Additional languages
- English
- Frisian
Register Of Fields Of Law
I am registered in the register of areas of legal practice of the Netherlands Bar for the following principal and secondary legal areas:
- Law of persons and family law:
- Inheritance law
This registration obliges me to obtain ten training points for each registered principal legal practice area in accordance with the standards of the Netherlands Bar.

what our clients say about ciska
Excellent support during several divorce related court proceedings. Ciska Elsinga has successfully accompanied me through several court proceedings. She is empathetic, effective and has in-depth expertise. The cooperation and communication with her was excellent.
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My experience with Ciska Elsinga and RWV was excellent! I would like to express my sincere gratitude for the outstanding legal assistance you provided in my recent case. Your professionalism, dedication, and expertise truly made a difference. Thanks to your guidance, I always felt well-informed and supported, which gave me great reassurance during this challenging time. Your determination and commitment led to a positive outcome for which I am incredibly grateful.
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Ciska Elsinga supported me during a mediation process concerning a divorce. I had a very positive experience with her. Our collaboration was pleasant, as Ciska is legally decisive while also being attentive to the human side and relationships. With her quick and efficient service, she is a true pillar of support!
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Despite the difficult time, Ciska Elsinga assisted me well in finalizing my divorce. Due to certain circumstances, my divorce was more complex, partly because of an international aspect. That’s why I was looking for a family law lawyer with sufficient experience. Ciska came across as highly competent and gave me honest advice. My conversations with her were pleasant, and she thought along with me to find the best possible solutions.
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